Let it go

Many brides report that they felt disproportionately sad or angry (a la bridezilla) when something went awry on their wedding day (and something always does). Instead of obsessing over the fact that the topiaries are in the wrong place, the frosting is the wrong color or the programs didn't get distributed just LET IT GO. Your wedding is an amazing day - an opportunity to spend time with friends and family and to enjoy all of your hard work. Think about how amazing it is to be getting married and to be sharing the day with all of your loved ones. They won't care that your first dance was to the "wrong" song or that the aisle runner was missing so neither should you. Just do your best to get everything organized before hand and then let it all go on the day of your wedding and just have fun!